…remember the words of the Lord Jesus, how he himself said, ‘It is more blessed to give than to receive.’ (Acts 20:35)
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It is common and easy to apply these words to Christmas presents, acts of kindness, and second helpings of dessert. But the same concept can be applied to forgiveness, as well.
In our relationships with each other, we want to be forgiven. We are blessed when others forgive us. Eventually, as time progresses after an offense, we begin to expect to be forgiven.
But it is a blessing to forgive, even more than it is a blessing to be forgiven.
In fact, being overly concerned about BEING forgiven might show a weakness in our hearts.
Rather than be angry at those who have not forgiven us, instead forgive them.
Rather than be sullen about a lack of forgiveness towards us, instead forgive others.
Rather than hold a grudge against those who have not forgiven us, instead display the gracious and rare gift of forgiving others.
Even before they apologize. Even before they repent. Even before they know they need forgiveness.
Just like Jesus has forgiven us.