Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect. (Romans 12:2 ESV)
Different
Only our God shows forgiveness. The world says get even. The state says forgiveness MIGHT come after punishment. Our legal system says forgiveness is failure. Our playgrounds taught us forgiveness is for the weak.
Modern psycho-babble says that forgiveness is not necessary, since everyone is nice. Humanism says forgiveness is just a form of justice, since all are simply equal, regardless of role or activity. And religion says forgiveness is earned only through new obedience to some standard.
But God’s word says do not be like the world. Instead, we get to receive, understand, and give real forgiveness.
Real forgiveness occurs when the offense is clearly stated. But rather than vengeance, the offended offers forgiveness. Real forgiveness occurs when the offended deserves to be angry. But rather than continued anger, the offended offers forgiveness. Real forgiveness occurs when justice demands punishment and recompense. But the offended offers forgiveness.
It is probably the most DIFFERENT thing that Christians can do.
Be different, forgive. Even if you are the only one.