For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fools; this also is vanity. (Ecclesiastes 7:6 ESV)
Bad Laughter
Not all laughter is a blessing, a sign of awareness of blessings, or a result of joy.
The laughter of fools, says the Preacher, is merely fuel for fire, and worthless.
But what is foolish laughter?
Foolish laughter is laughter not coming from God, godliness, or God’s character in a Christian’s life.
In other words, the motivation of the laughter determines whether it is joyful or destructive… a blessing or a cause of pain… an act of love, or an act of self-love.
When I was very young, our pastor preached a sermon that I mocked. He claimed that mocking was unrighteous. I agreed with that. He claimed that laughing at suffering was hateful. I agreed with that. But then he went too far.
He claimed that teasing was unrighteous, unloving, and hateful.
I thought teasing was fun. I thought teasing was a part of community. I thought teasing was a sign of affection.
But that horrible sermon has since worked it’s way into my mind, heart, and soul.
I realize that I might not speak for you. But I also realize that when I tease, even with a smile on my face, I am lifting myself up, and pushing another down. When I tease, I am laughing at someone’s misfortune, error, or struggles. When I tease, I am mocking small things that have strong connection to larger matters of the heart.
I have built bonfires with thorny branches. They flare up, sometimes loudly. But they do not heat, persist, or help the bonfire.
And foolish laughter is not necessary, useful, or good.
In fact, it is foolish. Because laughing in THAT way is not acting like Christ. It is acting like I am the choreographer. Laughing in THAT way is not acting like Christ. It is acting like I know others’ hearts more than they do. Laughing in THAT way is not acting like Christ. It is acting like I care more about my place in the spotlight, than I care about caring for the cares of someone else.
No more foolish laughter.
The good news is, that Christ died for our mocking laughter. But it still hurt someone else. Like the woman at the well, Jesus tells us, “Go, and sin no more.”
Laugh better.